Showing posts with label personal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personal. Show all posts

Thursday

First Book to Be Published Soon

I apologize to all of my readers for my long absence from the blogosphere.  In recent months, I have had to eschew blogging and other freelance writing activities in order to focus more intently on my teaching career and to devote additional time to completing my first book.

I am happy to announce that I have now finished that project.  The book, which is called Using Data Management Techniques to Modernize Healthcare, will be released by CRC Press on August 6 of this year.  The link is below.

Using Data Management Techniques to Modernize Healthcare

Now that I have completed this project, I hope to begin blogging again (and to read others' blogs) in earnest; however, to borrow an old cliche, "We will see."

#health #healthcare #healthcareIT #IT #business #blogging #personal

Sunday

2012 Commentary: This Virginia Voter is Unhappy with Republicans and Democrats

Abstract: I live in the battleground state of Virginia. I recently decided to vote for a third party candidate in the upcoming presidential elections. I give my reasons for this choice in the article.

I live in the battleground state of Virginia. I recently decided to vote for a third party candidate in the upcoming presidential election. I do not feel that I can support either Barack Obama or Mitt Romney for president. Neither candidate has shown me that he can work with Congress to solve our nation's problems. At the same time, I want to publicly voice my displeasure with both parties over their inability to work together to pass important legislation.

I do not think that either candidate would be able to craft bipartisan legislation if he were elected president. Obama has already demonstrated that he is unable to convince Republicans to work with him on important issues. I do not feel that Romney would have any more luck than Obama when it comes to handling the opposition. He would have immense difficulty creating legislation that would appeal to moderate Democrats without alienating staunch conservatives. I cannot in good conscience vote for a candidate if I do not believe he can push important, bipartisan bills through Congress.

To some extent, neither candidate is to blame for this problem. Republicans and Democrats in the House and Senate too often are unwilling to compromise on issues that are vital to the nation. Even the most capable leader might find it difficult to get the two sides to work together.

I have a responsibility as an American citizen to let both Republicans and Democrats know how I feel about the gridlock on Capitol Hill. I think the best way for me to voice my opinion is through my vote. I realize that my third party candidate (whoever I choose) will not win. Nonetheless, the two parties might take notice if enough people in battleground states vote for a third party candidate. If nothing else, I can take pride in the fact that I had the courage to vote my conscience.

So after many months of careful thought, I have decided to vote for a third party candidate on Election Day. I realize that he will not win; however, I cannot in good conscience vote for either Obama or Romney. I also feel that I can use my vote to voice my displeasure with both Republicans and Democrats for creating the gridlock on Capitol Hill.

-- Anthony Hopper

#politics #president #Obama #Republicans #GOP #Democrats #opinion

Saturday

How Poor Financial Decisions Turned Me from a Prince into a Pauper

ABSTRACT: When I graduated from college, I was in pretty good financial shape. I had around $20,000 in assets and no debts. By the time I turned 29, I had few assets and had amassed over $30,000 in loans. Here is what happened?
Prince - Courtesy of Microsoft Office

When I graduated from college, I was in pretty good financial shape. I had around $20,000 in assets and no debts. I appeared to have a bright financial future ahead of me; however, I did not take advantage of my good fortune. By the time I turned 29, I had few assets and had amassed over $30,000 in loans.

Suffice to say I made a number of poor financial decisions during my 20s that turned me from a prince into a pauper. I am now almost 40 years old; however, I am still dealing with the repercussions from these youthful mistakes. I could have avoided a majority of these pitfalls by eschewing risky investments, by spending more time honing my negotiating skills, and by creating a financial game plan.

Undone by Risky Investments

When I was in my 20s, I felt like I would live forever. I assumed that I would have plenty of time to overcome any financial mistakes. Investing for me became a game, and I wanted to hit the jackpot. As such, I put a significant amount of my earnings (and most of my savings) into high risk stocks and questionable business ventures. Worse, I invested in these companies without fully researching them.
I paid a high price for these errors. During my 20s, I lost tens of thousands of dollars due to failed investments.

Hampered by Poor Negotiating Skills
Pauper - Courtesy of Microsoft Office

Looking back on my 20s, I regret not spending more time developing my negotiating skills, which were subpar. As a result, I was never able to obtain the best salary, to maximize my return (when there was one) on a business venture, or to get a superb deal on a high priced item. Each time I entered into a negotiation, I would make a key mistake, such as starting the price to high or accepting an offer too soon. I lost a lot of money as a result of these errors.

Stymied by the Lack of a Financial Game Plan

When I look back on my 20s, I most regret not creating a financial game plan. If I had taken the time to carefully plan out my future, I might have eschewed risky investments and put more time into honing my negotiating prowess. I almost certainly would have made better career decisions. For instance, I likely would not have chosen to work for a company that barely paid a living wage when, with a little effort, I could have located better paying jobs.

-- Anthony Hopper

Recalling the Derecho of 2012 - My Story

* I wrote this article in 2012 for Y!CN immediately following the derecho, which swept through Va and other states, causing significant damage and leaving many residents without power.

ABSTRACT: I lost power on Friday, June 29, when a powerful storm swept through my neighborhood in southwest Virginia. This article provides a first person account of how I have been coping with the power outage.
My bathroom - no power (own photo)

I live in the Roanoke Valley, which is located in southwest Virginia. Per the U.S. Census Bureau, the area contains around 308,000 people. On most nights, one can stand on top of a nearby mountain and peer out at the sparkling array of lights coming from the businesses and homes in the valley.

That has not been the case the last few nights. As WSLS (Channel 10) notes, a powerful storm swept through the Roanoke Valley on Friday and knocked out power to tens of thousands of residents. Per Appalachian Power, several days later, on July 3, more than 22,000 homes and businesses in the area still lack electricity.

For my part, I was at home (in a place I rent with my dad) on Friday. Shortly after 9 p.m., the power flickered several times before going out. My neighborhood has not had electricity since that point. Without any air conditioning, the temperature in the house rose appreciably. By Saturday afternoon, the place felt like a hothouse, and it does not seem to have cooled down much since that time. Over the last few days, I have spent some time with relatives. The houses are air conditioned, and my family members have been nothing but kind. Nonetheless, I long for the familiar feel of my place (when it had power).

I have spent most of my nights between Friday and Monday at the home I rent with dad. The scene is eerie. The neighborhood is totally dark, and the usually busy street has been quiet. The only sounds I hear are an occasional dog bark and the constant thrum of someone's whole house generator. Even at night, it is quite hot at my residence; I am constantly sweating as I lay in the bed. If I want to read, I have to hold the flashlight over my head. I also find it difficult to sleep, as I lay in bed worrying that, at any time, a criminal is going to try to break into the residence.

I hope that power is restored to my neighborhood soon, so that I can abandon my nomadic lifestyle and resume my normal routine.

-- Anthony Hopper

#weather, #Virginia #VA #derecho #storm #power #personal #memoir #autobiography #personalinterest

Top 10 Reasons Why I Am Thankful to Be an Atlanta Braves Fan

Abstract: Thanksgiving is only a few days away. I am thankful for many things, including the fact that I am an Atlanta Braves fan. Here are 10 reasons why I am glad that the Braves are my favorite team.

Atlanta Braves' Statue of Liberty promotion (1).
Thanksgiving is only a few days away. As I get ready to celebrate the holiday, I have to take a moment to consider how fortunate I am to have my health, my friends, and my family. I am also extremely lucky to be a fan of the Atlanta Braves.

Here are 10 reasons why I am thankful to be a Braves fan:

1. The Braves Were on TBS: When I was growing up in the late-1980s and early-1990s, my dad and I would spend our summer nights watching the Braves games on TBS. Looking back on it, we got a chance to spend quality time together doing something we loved. Who would not be thankful for that opportunity?

2. The Braves Have Been Really Good: The Braves have made the playoffs 16 times since 1991. They have won a World Series and five NL pennants during that stretch.

3. Dale Murphy: I am glad that I had the chance to watch the Braves' Dale Murphy play ball. I looked up to him when I was young. I admired his athletic ability, his love of the game, and, most importantly, his commitment to his family. I wish Murphy had played his entire career in Atlanta.

4. Chance to Watch a Legend: I am truly thankful that I had the opportunity to watch one of the all-time Braves greats, Chipper Jones, play out his entire MLB career.

5. Great Announcers: I grew up watching Skip Caray and Pete Van Wieren broadcast Braves games on TBS. Listening to them speak, I sometimes felt like I was in the stands instead of at home watching the game on television.

6. A Superb Manager: I am thankful that the Braves hired Bobby Cox midway through the 1990 season. He helped transform the team from a perennial loser into a powerhouse. I was sad to see Cox call it quits after the 2010 season. At least he retired as a Brave.

7. The Braves Moved to Atlanta: I am glad the Braves moved from Milwaukee to Atlanta in 1966. I adopted the Braves as my favorite team in part because they played in the South. I doubt I would have become attached to the organization if it had remained in Wisconsin.

8. Ted Turner: I am thankful that Ted Turner bought the Atlanta Braves in 1976. I might never have had the opportunity to watch the Braves play on TBS if Turner had not purchased the franchise when he did.

9. The Braves Continue to Win: I am thankful that the organization remains committed to putting winning teams on the field. I hope the Braves continue to be successful for decades to come.

10. The Memories: Regardless of what happens in the future, I am thankful to the Braves organization for providing me with lots of memories. I can cherish them for a lifetime.

Sources:

Baseball-Reference

Mark Bowman.Historic Braves-TBS Partnership to End. Atlanta Braves official website.

1. Photographer: Marianne O'Leary
    Date: July 11, 2008
    Title/Description: Atlanta Braves Statue of Liberty, promotion for 2008 MLB All-Star Game.
    Location/Permission: Wikimedia Commons - Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license
    (see title/link for photo, credit, permissions).

The author has followed Major League Baseball for many years and is a fan of the Atlanta Braves.

-- Anthony Hopper

#MLB #baseball #Atlanta #Braves #AtlantaBraves #Turner

Friday

Why One Sports Fan Prefers the NFL over MLB

Abstract: I enjoy watching Major League Baseball contests. However, I am a much bigger fan of the National Football League. If I have a choice between watching a MLB game or a NFL matchup, I will usually opt for the NFL game. Here are five reasons why.

I enjoy watching Major League Baseball contests. However, I am a much bigger fan of the National Football League. If I have a choice between watching a MLB game or a NFL match-up, I will usually opt for the NFL game.

Here are five reasons why I prefer the NFL over MLB:

Fantasy Sports: I will be honest, my intense interest in the NFL is due in large part to the fact that I play fantasy football. I love every aspect of fantasy football from the draft preparation to the weekly player research. I will tune into any NFL game as long as I have a fantasy athlete on one of the teams. As a case in point, I plan on watching the mediocre Miami Dolphins take on the hapless Tennessee Titans on Sunday, Nov. 11 (assuming the local bar is carrying the game). I am not a fan of either team. However, I have the Dolphins' Reggie Bush on one of my fantasy football squads. I want to watch as the running back carries my fantasy team to victory in Week 10.

I have not played fantasy baseball in years. As a result, I do not have any incentive to watch MLB games pitting two bad teams against each other.

Fewer Games: MLB teams play 162 regular season games each year, which dilutes the value of any one contest. By contrast, NFL teams only play 16 games during the regular season. As a result, I find that a regular season game in the NFL is usually much more compelling than one involving MLB teams. Just ask the Dallas Cowboys and the Philadelphia Eagles. Both teams are 3-5 at the midway point of the 2012 NFL season. Any hopes of making the postseason will likely end for the loser of this game. By contrast, the San Francisco Giants lost 68 regular season games in 2012, yet still managed to make the MLB postseason and win the World Series.

Hard Hits: I really enjoy watching NFL players tackle each other. I look forward to seeing a hard hit by a defensive end or an exciting touchdown-saving tackle by a cornerback. I do not get the same adrenaline rush from watching a batter slide into base or an outfielder dive to snag a ball. Would you rather watch the New York Giants' Jason Pierre-Paul put a bone crushing hit on a quarterback or the Cincinnati Reds' Billy Hamilton make a nice catch in the outfield?

More Ways to Score: I find NFL games exciting in part because teams have several ways to score points. They can kick a field goal, score a touchdown, get a safety, execute a two point conversion (after a touchdown) or kick an extra point. By contrast, MLB players can only score by touching home base.

Potential for Exciting Plays: A big part of the reason I watch NFL games is to see offensive players try to avoid being tackled by their opponents. I am on the edge of my seat when a wide receiver spins out of a tackle or a when a running back makes a juke move to get past a defender. I do not get the same satisfaction from watching a MLB player sliding into base to avoid a tag. There is nothing sweeter than watching a player like the Green Bay Packers' Randall Cobb running a kickoff back for a touchdown.

The author is an avid sports fan. His favorite teams are the Pittsburgh Steelers (in football) and the Atlanta Braves (in baseball).

-- Anthony Hopper

#fantasyfootball #football #NFL #fantasy #scoring

I Am Happy Renting My Residence Instead of Owning It

Abstract: Many people tout the benefits of home ownership. However, I feel that renting is a better financial option for me because I do not have to spend money or time on home maintenance and repair.

Over the years, I have listened to numerous people, running the gamut from housing experts to friends, who have touted the benefits of home ownership. They note that a home owner can build up equity in his or her house over time. By contrast, a person who rents the same residence for decades will have nothing in the bank to show for it. Proponents of home ownership also point to the tax benefits that come with financing a house on credit. I have heard all of these arguments time and again; however, I am not swayed by them. I have not owned a house in years and do not think that I will purchase one again anytime soon.
Courtesy Microsoft Office

One of the key advantages for me, as a renter, is that I never have to spend money to fix any structural problems. For a homeowner, it is a different story. Over time, he or she will almost certainly have to spend thousands (if not tens of thousands) of dollars to fix the roof, to repaint the house, and to perform other maintenance functions. A March 2010 article in Houselogic.com estimates that "[o]ver time, annual maintenance costs average more than $3,300." Contrast that figure with my annual repair and maintenance costs, which are usually zero.

Perhaps more importantly, if the roof collapses or the plumbing goes awry, I do not have not devote any of my precious time to locating a repair company. I also do not have to take time off from my job to ensure that the people I hired to fix the problem are doing quality work. I can simply call my landlord and let him worry about those issues. By contrast, a homeowner will likely devote a significant amount of his or her own time to maintenance and repairs. This represents a lost opportunity cost for the owner; the time he or she spends at these tasks cannot be used for other purposes, such as earning a paycheck. While I could not find a site that would quantify these costs, I bet that, over time, they represent a significant expense for homeowners.

Sometimes I am tempted to become a homeowner. However, when I stop to consider how much money and time I would have to spend on upkeep and repairs if I owned my home, I inevitably come to the conclusion that I am happy to remain a renter.

-- Anthony Hopper

#housing #renting #homes #homeowners #homeownership #personalfinance #finance #business #personal #renting #opinion

First Person: I Left My Career Behind

When I graduated from Roanoke College in 1996, I chose to accept a job with a small, mail order pharmacy. Over the next four years, I flirted with the idea of going back to school; however, although I would file applications to graduate schools from time to time, I did not seriously consider leaving my position with the company for several reasons. For one thing, while I may have grasped the concept of aging at an intellectual level, I did not have any experience with the subject. I felt as if I would stay young forever and thus did not feel any pressure to go back to school. At the same time, I did not know what vocation I wanted to pursue. Finally, I was concerned that I might not perform well in graduate school even though both my standardized test scores and undergraduate GPA were quite high; I worried that I did not have enough self-discipline to do the work required for my graduate courses.
Courtesy of Microsoft Office

My feelings on the subject began to change in December of 2000. One night, I was playing a word game with family and friends. I could usually come up with needed words at a lightning fast pace; however, on this night, it seemed as if my synapses were not firing as quickly as they should. Looking in the mirror, I also realized that other things were changing as well; I was losing hair and some fine wrinkles were forming on my hands. I realized for the first time that I was aging, and I felt that I needed to make a choice concerning whether or not to go back to school. I pondered the matter for several months and made my decision in late 2000. I still did not know whether or not I could produce graduate level work or even which field I might want to pursue a degree in. Regardless, I decided I wanted to become a college professor.

After researching the matter, I opted to resign from my job in May 2001 and enroll in a graduate level, Liberal Arts program. I felt that this decision allowed me to try out a number of fields to see which ones I enjoyed. I could also determine whether or not I was ready for graduate school. During this period, I lived at home, thereby saving money on rent and food. At the same time, I had some savings and used a portion of these funds to pay for the graduate courses. Finally, I worked part-time as a realtor. I did not make much money at this profession; however, I earned enough cash to pay for some of my schooling.

I ended up matriculating in the University of Virginia's graduate program in English with the goal of using that degree as a stepping stone to a Ph.D. (though not necessarily one in Literature). I obtained the M.A. degree but decided later on that I did not want to become a professor. In retrospect, perhaps I made the wrong decision when I left my job; however, at the time, I believed it was the correct choice.

-- Anthony Hopper

#careers #business #finance #personalfinance #personalinterest #education #school #graduateschool #English

First Person: My $139,000 Tax Bill

Abstract: I recount my shock at receiving a letter from the IRS stating that I owed more than $139,000 in back taxes. I discuss what I did to remedy the situation.

In March 2007, I submitted my income information to my tax planner. During 2006, I had tinkered with day trading stocks and had made a small ($2,000-$3,000) profit on sales of over a million dollars. I received my tax documents back and was overjoyed to note that I only owed the Internal Revenue Service around $200 and the Commonwealth of Virginia even less. I promptly mailed my tax forms to the appropriate agencies and forgot about the matter.

I was shocked to receive a final notice from the IRS in October 2008 which claimed that I owed more than $139,000 in back taxes along with several thousand dollars in penalties. The statement threatened legal action if I did not respond within a certain number of days. I do not recall receiving any previous statements; the IRS may have sent them to an old address.

Courtesy of Microsoft Office
I called the IRS and asked for an extension. My tax planner and I analyzed the documents and noticed that we had neglected to include several pages worth of stock transactions on the original return. By his own admission, my tax analyst worked for many hours to fix the errors caused by my oversight. Once he had completed this task, I sent an amended tax return to the IRS and settled with them for around $200-$300. At that point, I thought the nightmare had ended.

Little did I know that the IRS had informed the Commonwealth of Virginia about my supposed tax debt; however, the agency did not notify the state about my amended tax return. In the spring of 2009, I received a notice from the Commonwealth of Virginia asking for me to pay tens of thousands of dollars in back taxes. It took me a few months to fix this issue, partly due to my negligence in submitting the proper forms on time. In the end, the Commonwealth of Virginia charged me twice as much as the IRS in taxes and penalties.
My experiences with both the IRS and state tax authorities changed the way I prepare my taxes. Even in years where my tax returns are fairly straightforward, I spend some time making sure that I have collected all the pertinent information, and I carefully review my returns for errors. I learned my lesson the hard way.

-- Anthony Hopper

#personalfinance #personalinterest #finance #business #taxes #IRS #debt #stocks #markets

Saturday

Egg Cracking Contests and Candy - My Childhood Memories

I realize that Easter has long since passed us by, at least for this year.  However, I am in the process of moving my articles over from Y!CN to this blog.  As I was perusing through the article list and deciding which piece I would post next, I ran across this one.  While I wrote the Easter memoir a couple of years ago - and for a specific holiday (Easter) at that- I think it bespeaks to some timeless elements in my childhood.  Perhaps you can empathize?

Anyway, I hope that you enjoy this reflection on the joys of Easter, as seen through the eyes of a child.
Microsoft Office

We are less than two months away from one of the most popular holidays in the United States and one of the holiest days of the year for most Christians throughout the world. That is right; it is almost time for Easter.

Most Americans have fond, childhood memories of by-gone Easter weekends. Some of them might recall the time spent with family and friends at home or at church. Other people may remember particularly exciting moments from their Easter egg hunts or reminisce about some special gift they received from a beloved relative. While their stories may differ, almost everyone probably has at least one or two cherished memories which are connected with the Easter season. Their tales are at once unique and at the same time contain ubiquitous elements that result from shared perspectives, beliefs, and experiences. As a result, I feel that many of my readers will be able to empathize with at least parts of my personal, Easter narrative.

When I was young, I used to look forward to Easter for several reasons. On the one hand, I knew that I would not have to attend school on the Thursday and Friday before that holiday. I craved this time off, especially since I did not have many vacation days in between Christmas and Easter. Coming from a Catholic family, I also had to give up something every year for Lent (the 40 days preceding Easter), which in my case usually meant forgoing either candy or soft drinks. For adults, this action often has a special significance; it helps them refocus their attention on their obligations to God and to their fellow men and women. As a young child, I did not make these connections; I simply saw it as my duty to family and God and did not hesitate to end my agreement as soon as the clock struck midnight on Easter morning. I also became excited at that time of year because I knew I would receive a basket full of candy on Easter Sunday. I already knew what types of sweets would be in the carrier, as the assortment of jelly beans, peanut butter cups, candy bars, and other goodies did not change from year to year; nonetheless, I still maintained a youthful sense of anticipation.

Microsoft Office
On the day before Easter, my Mom, a great aunt, and one of my Mom's friends would come over and help me and my sisters to color eggs. We used generic, water based dyes and none of our creations were especially imaginative; however, that was okay. While I enjoyed coloring them, I thought it was much more fun to use them in egg cracking contests in which I and my sisters would each pick-up an egg and slam them together. The winner was the one whose egg had the fewest cracks; I usually prevailed.

In many ways, Easter Sunday was always a letdown. I had to get up earlier than usual so that I could dress in my very best clothes before heading to church. I then had to sit through a mass that lasted longer than usual and a church luncheon event that was usually rather dull. As an adult, I can appreciate and enjoy these aspects of Easter, the 8 or 9 year old version of me could not. I did enjoy myself once I got home, as I could stuff myself full of jelly beans and other types of candy. At the same time, I lamented the fact that I had to go back to school on Monday.

While my childhood, Easter experiences would not be considered newsworthy, they were an important part of my life. I had a chance to feel all the joy, excitement, and (sometimes) boredom that are part and parcel of any good Easter experience. I also had the chance to bond with family in ways that I did not appreciate at the time. I will cherish these memories for the rest of my life, and in this respect, I do not differ from other Americans.


-- Anthony Hopper

#Easter #holidays #candy #happiness #childhood #memoirs

Friday

Why My Deceased Aunt Might Have Liked Facebook

ABSTRACT: My deceased aunt is no different from millions of other Americans who have passed away over the centuries. Her life story is slowly fading and will soon disappear entirely. With the advent of social media, my generation may not have to suffer this fate.

For most of her existence, my great aunt lived in a world that relied on typewriters, slide-rules, and notebooks (the paper type). To the best of my knowledge, she never owned a computer and died before the Internet came into its own. She did not have any children and her husband had passed away years earlier. She kept a diary of sorts, as written snippets on annual calendars, in notepads, on receipts, and in other, unlikely places. These thoughts represented who she was---her dreams, her beliefs, her ideas, and montages of her daily life.

Microsoft Office
After her husband died, she lived by herself, with a small dog as her sole companion. We only visited her a few times; perhaps other family members went to see her more often. She did have cousins and nephews who lived nearby. However, for all of that, she seemed like a lonely person--at least that is what I recall. Perhaps her sense of isolation (if she truly was lonely) resulted from the fact that she resided by herself. Due to her advanced age, she might also have naturally been more inclined to reminisce about the past than to contemplate the present or to think about the future. More likely it derived from the fact that she did not have enough friends or societal connections to replace the diaphanous memories with new, solid experiences.

When she passed away, her estate was split between several family members. They might have kept a few items as "mementos." I am sure that at least some of these people still have a photo or two of my great aunt and her late husband. Nonetheless, her story has almost completely disappeared; the notepads, the receipts, and the calendars that contained her words--her life--were long ago consigned to the dumpster. Rare is the time when anyone speaks her name, much less recalls any fond (or perhaps not so fond) memories of her. In many ways, she is as anonymous as the men and women on the antique family portraits hanging up in roadside diners. Of them, nothing much remains except perhaps for a picture and a gravestone. Even their relatives have forgotten them.
Microsoft Office

Perhaps my great aunt would be content with this situation. For her, the next life was the more important one. Nonetheless, I cannot help but wonder what she would think about the Internet, and more importantly, about social media. With these tools, she could have left her story behind on a blog, on Facebook, or on some other, on-line site for a future generation of curious relatives to read. As important, while living, she could have used social media to keep in constant contact with friends, family, and acquaintances. When she logged into her Google + account for instance, she might have been cheered to see a post, which she authored, had garnered 15 responses.

I will never know what my aunt would have done if she had spent the majority of her life in the new, social media driven world. However, I am thankful that I might have the chance to leave behind some aspect of myself on the Internet--some part of me that a future relative (say in a couple hundred years) can access.

-- Anthony Hopper

#genealogy #family #technology #socialmedia #opinion #personal

Saturday

Four Things I Don't Want to Hear When I Am 80

We all have older relatives or friends.  Heck, some of us might have already reached our golden years.  I still have a ways to go before I punch my AARP ticket; however, I already know that there are some phrases, which will irk me.  With that in mind, here are four things I don't want to hear from other people when I am 80.  For humorous purposes only-not to be taken (too) seriously.

You Look Good Today: How many of us have kindly patted one of our elderly friends or family members on the back, as we tell him or her that "you look good today."  If I were 80, I would shudder when someone uttered that phrase.  I would think, "Gee, am I supposed to look any other way?"  Seriously, every time I (the 80 year old me) heard someone say, "You look good today," I would shudder, as no one tells a 20-something that he or she looks good today (which implies that the person might not look so good tomorrow).   

I Haven't Seen You Since I Was Five: We can all relate to that one.  Uncle Johnny or Aunt Ethel stops into town (usually for a funeral) for the first time in a decade or two.  The elderly gent or lady realizes that everyone has aged significantly.  It is especially telling when an adult comes up to the out-of-towner and says, "Do you remember me?  When we last met, I had just started kindergarten."  Yikes!  What better way to remind someone that he or she is, er - graying, than to force that individual to face the fact that a whole generation has gone by in what seems like a heartbeat.  It is even worse if you cannot remember the person who is standing in front of you - all smiles - and recounting precise details from the time that he or she last met you. 

You Get Around Well: We have all probably uttered some derivation of this one at some point in our lives.  When I'm 80, I might not take well to hearing it, as I will be reminded that I can't move like I used to...

Do You Remember that Soda Shop: Yes, we all like to relive good memories, recount old (often embellished) stories of days gone by, and remember childhood friends.  However, I might have to look askance when someone asks me, "Do you remember the old soda pop (insert your favorite restaurant, store, etc.) place that used to be here.  Closed down, er might be 40 years ago now.  I sure did love that place."  Well, I might have loved that place as well, but really, I will feel old when I hear something like that.


Courtesy of Microsoft Office


Is One Hundred Years a Long Time?

Hi All,

As I noted in my very first blog post, I will try post my initial/ad hoc thoughts on here.  As such, some of my ruminations are a little rough around the edges (to say the least).  This post is no exception.  With that said, please accept my apologies in advance for any issues with coherency, organization, and/or grammar.

Some of you might think that a hundred years is a long time.  However, is that really the case?  Some of us will live a hundred years or longer.  When we reach centenarian status, we might say, “Wow, I've lived a long time!” However, we are more likely to say, “Time is so short; I need more years!” 

Clip art courtesy of Microsoft Office
How about two hundred years…?  Do you think 1814 is part of ancient history?  Well, in many cases, our great-great-great-great grandparents (perhaps even our great-great-great grandparents) were alive at that time.  That might seem like a lot of “greats,” until you stop and think that many of us will have met at least one great-grandparent (before that esteemed elder passed away).


So, perhaps 200 years is not a great deal of time…In fact, to me it feels like I can almost touch it.  If I had asked my granddad (when he was alive) for stories he had heard of his granddad, who lived in the late 1800s, perhaps he could have told me
…And if that individual had in turn asked his granddad for stories…Well, I hope you see where I am going with that…

#history #genealogy #family, #time #grandparents

Friday

Creating a Memoir? Sometimes the Things We Take For Granted Are Most Important

Clip art courtesy of Microsoft Office

Have you ever been reading a history book and said to yourself, "It is unfortunate that we don't have any information on this or that thing."  Perhaps you wanted to know more about peasant life during the Roman era, or you wanted to know how certain individuals in prior centuries coped with the deaths of loved ones (especially given the high rates of mortality for children and young adults in previous generations--how would a person cope with the loss of several of his or her siblings, as well as his/her parents, before that individual even reached adulthood).  You searched far and wide for this information but were not able to find it because the data no longer existed.

Often, we lack information on the past because those people did not keep records, or because the records they did create have been destroyed.  However, just as often, and especially when dealing with more modern periods, we lack vital information on a subject because writers from that era took it for granted.  They assumed that everyone knew about these events/things, so they didn't mention them.  

Keep that fact in mind as you are writing/creating your memoir (assuming you want to leave some type of written/image based memoir behind once you pass).  The little things that you take for granted are the bits and pieces of your life that your descendants (and any other interested people) might be most interested in.  

#memoir #history #genealogy #personal #information #data

Saturday

Your Suggestions for How to Keep from Becoming Jaded

It snowed in my area a few days ago.  I watched the snowflakes fall to the earth and thought to myself, "Isn't this site beautiful."  Upon further reflection, I realized that I enjoyed the moment only because it was both rare and ephemeral.  I only see a few snow showers per year--maybe five or six at the most.  I think I would have a much different opinion of these phenomena if they occurred more often.

Along the same lines, I have lived in the shadow of the Blue Ridge mountains, since I was born.  I have grown used to the sight of these peaks and do not feel a thing--even a brief flicker of emotion--when I turn my eyes towards them.  Whereas a visitor to the area might say, "Wow, look at those beautiful mountains," I simply shrug and say, "Eh, mountains..."

Photo courtesy of Microsoft Office
It is the same with everything.  If I view an object, vista, whatever, often enough, then I lose my sense of wonder.  I become jaded.  I'm sure that this is human nature; that we all struggle with this problem.  So, my question to you (to my
readers) is, "Can I use any techniques, etc. to keep these views fresh?"  In other words, is there a method I can utilize that will allow me to maintain my sense of wonder/excitement at seeing a scene/object, regardless of how many times I look upon it?

Perhaps you have some ideas...I would be happy to hear them.

#mountains #snow #personal #beauty

Thursday

Posting Our Gray (Unfinished) Musings

#musings #thoughts #ideas 

Clip art courtesy of Microsoft Office


I think it would be interesting if more people on the Web posited their daily ruminations.  I don’t mean to say that people should update their statuses more often, list their lunch ideas, or place more emoticons on their posts. I think most of us have seen enough of those two types of updates.  Rather, I think people should spend more time positing their somewhat deeper philosophical, ethical, social, and financial thoughts/ideas.  The ones that are foremost in their minds at any particular moment but have not yet attained mature status (eg., are not ready for the press).

I feel that this tactic would achieve several purposes.  First, as a society, we would be able to learn more about our fellow men and women, as we could get beyond the facile.  Second, the individual posters would be creating a virtual storehouse for their ideas—a storehouse that might last long after they have perished.  Finally, the very act of writing down these thoughts might help us to learn more about ourselves. 
Those are my thoughts for the day.


Anthony Hopper

Tuesday

The Dialogue or Conversational Form


Hi All...I am sorry I haven't had the opportunity to post here in a while.  I'll try to do a better job of updating my blog in the future-and reading your blog posts as well. :) 

In my first blog post, I said that I would try to posit my authentic thoughts-unfiltered by heavy editing and/or ruminating.  For the most part, I have attempted to stay true to that mission-at least in the posts that do not link to my freelance articles.  However, I feel that the act of organizing my thoughts into paragraphs frustrates my mission to some extent.  That is because I have to prioritize views, delete alternative theories, etc. in order to create coherent paragraphs.  That act deprives readers from seeing the true range of feelings, emotions, and beliefs I might have on a topic.

In order to rectify this situation, I might on occasion try to postulate my thoughts in a dialogue or conversational format.  In those posts, I will use different characters to espouse contradictory ideas, feelings, and beliefs.  My tactic might work-or it might prove to be a disaster.  We will see. :)

Monday

I Apologize for My Absence

Hi All,

I wanted to quickly write to you all and apologize for not posting anything to my blog in the last few days.  I have been pretty busy.  I will try to create a new post (and read through all of your blog posts) soon.

Anthony

Friday

Snakes and Snow-Truly Ironic!

Snow outside of my house.


Yesterday was certainly interesting.  I was clearing some brush and leaves when it started to snow-SNOW!  Keep in mind that it rarely snows in southwest Virginia in April.  Even more surprising, as I was raking leaves, I came upon a small garter snake.  I was amazed to see a snake slithering around in near freezing temperatures; they usually stay in their burrows in this type of weather (heck, most of the snakes are probably still hibernating).  So, imagine me (or anyone really) raking leaves and moving brush during a snowstorm (in a month that does not usually see any snowstorms) and finding a snake.  Truly ironic!

Thursday

Thoughts on Newtown, the Fiscal Cliff, the Paranormal

I hope that everyone is enjoying the holidays.  I wanted to quickly post some of my thoughts on the ramifications of the Newtown shootings and the fiscal cliff imbroglio.  At the same time, I thought I would mention my M.A. thesis, which concerns the paranormal.

How Should We Respond to the Newtown Shootings

Immediately after the Newtown shootings, politicians, experts, and, for that matter, the public at large were clamoring for new laws to ensure that this tragic event was never repeated.  Sadly, it appears that these calls for reform have died down.  As so often happens, other events and happenings (cue the fiscal cliff) are starting to replaces Newtown in the public consciousness. 

I would assert that we shouldn't forget the shootings.  In fact, we should use them as motivation to address key concerns in our society.  I would also contend that we shouldn't focus on one issue.  The Newtown shootings point to numerous, potential flaws in our socio-economic structure revolving around bullying, parenting, lack of access to mental healthcare, guns, security, and school systems' missions, visions, and values.  Further, we will not get very far with many of these issues unless we approach them with an open mind.

If I were in a position of power (and I'm not), I would select a panel of experts and non-experts (with many more non-experts than experts).  I would ask them to explore a wide range of issues relating to the Newtown shootings.  Importantly, I would ask them to go into the process with open minds-to put any preconceived notions aside. Their motto would be "let the data guide."

The Fiscal Cliff

The fiscal cliff deadline is fast approaching.  Frankly, I do not expect the various parties to reach an agreement before January 1.  I think it is certainly possible (and even likely) that a fiscal cliff deal will pass the Senate; however, it is likely DOA in the House.  After his Plan B debacle, John Boehner can't afford to let bipartisan legislation clear the House until after the Jan. 3 speaker election.  I could be wrong on this one; let's wait and see.

The Paranormal

You might enjoy reading my M.A. thesis, which surveys Victorian America's attitudes to Spiritualism and the paranormal.  In the thesis, I focus on believers in the paranormal and look at some of the things these people hoped to gain by communing with the dead.  I do not (or try not to anyway) make any statements or claims regarding the existence (or lack thereof) of a supernatural world.  You can find it here: Why Did Post-Bellum America Fall in Love with Ghosts?